''Falling in love with you is the best thing happened in my life''
''Spending the life with the person you love most is the biggest achievement''
''Love makes life beautiful''
All the above quotes are imprinted on the epithelium of the tongue of a person flying in love. The moment one falls in love, he/she becomes so ecstatic that everything appears to be easy & soft !! Nothing looks impossible for the freshers of lovology. A guy who wished to study at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology(MIT) is now ready to take admission in Mahaveer Institute of Technology(MIT) just because her girl friend is in the later MIT. Believe me, I have seen few of these lovogenic psychos in last 4-5 years. They always claim that, 'we are made for each other.....we are mad for each other ....bla bla bla...' The word 'Career' undergoes apoptosis in the dictionary of these couples. They say that staying in touch with each other propels their life/love boat in a streamline manner.
Frankly speaking, I don't have much idea regarding the preferences of these guys for relationship over a good career. May be it is the so called 'power of love' which consolidates their inclination towards each other. I am not sure, whether I've under-estimated this power or they have over-estimated it.
Sometimes I feel that 'Happiness' is a subjective thing. different people have different goals in life that sprinkles happiness on them. Some find it in the beautiful arms/eyes of their partners, some in the super deluxe rooms of The Grand Hyatt & some in the classrooms of the Harvard/AIIMS.
But the biggest thing is that while watching the tug of war between the relationship & career most of us never book a ticket for our parents. Very few guys allow their parents to observe this encounter between life and wife. Believe me, less than 0.0000000001% of the parents will prefer their son/daughters love life over their bright career. I don't say that one should never fall in love, rather the relationship shouldn't be that serious to choke the career. The bitter truth is that no body is immune to love, so it is better to get vaccinated....BUT what really matters is the DOSE OF THE VACCINE(love).. The dose shouldn't be lethal for the career...
[There are people who have excelled in both relationships & careers, but all are not Rajnikanth...so think million times before you take any step]